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Many parents make the mistake of thinking that addiction is solely the fault of the child. That is why they often resolve to physical force and mental pressure to convince the child to skip its addictive practices. Well, such an approach is only going to cause more problems.
Why does the child go in for addiction? The innate curiosity in a child to try something forbidden is always present. However, things are never as simple as that. There is also the issue of parental control. How could you let your child become an addict?
If you are feeling guilty about your lack of control, it is important to tell yourself that mere control is of no use unless the child is prepared to cooperate. On the other hand, if you are keen on blaming the child and think that you are not to blame it all, you should ask yourself whether you have been fulfilling your duties properly or not.
Having an addict in the family means the entire family will have to overcome the problem together. Just because one family member has become an addict does not mean it is his or her problem alone. Recognizing this can be difficult because it involves a certain level of self incrimination.
The siblings will have to admit that they could have recognized the signs better. It is not just a question of feeling guilty of portioning blame. It is the question of accepting that something has gone wrong somewhere and must be repaired. If this aspect is not taken care of, there is no guarantee that the addict will recover and after proper rehabilitation.




